Why choose a couple sex toy?
Introducing a couple sex toy, is adding a playful, sensory and intimate to your moments together. It's also:
- Communicating about your desires : choosing together opens up the dialogue
- Discovering new sensations : vibrations, textures, shapes
- Breaking out of routine : varying pleasures, trying new positions
- Building trust : listening, respect, intimacy
- Intensifying orgasm : simultaneous multi-zone stimulation
The couple sex toy is not a performance accessory: it is a tool for connection, play and shared pleasure.
The different types of couple sex toys
There is a wide variety of couple sex toys, suited to different desires, practices and levels of experience. Here is an overview of the main categories to help guide you.
- Couple vibrator
- Vibrating egg
- Cockring - Cock Ring
- Pegging Harness - Strap-on Harness
- Strap-on Dildo - Strap-on
- Double dong
- Second-skin underwear
Couple vibrators: synchronized or alternating pleasure
The couple vibrators are designed to stimulate both partners, either simultaneously or one after the other. They adapt to your desires of the moment and add a vibrant dimension to your intimacy or your foreplay.
U-shaped vibrators
The U-shaped vibrators (such as the Satisfyer Double Classic or the Love to Love Match up) are worn during penetration. One arm stimulates the clitoris, the other the G-spot, while the penetrating partner feels the vibrations.
Why choose them?
- Stimulation clitoral, vaginal and penile simultaneous
- Often remote-controlled
- Ideal for beginners
Vibrating wands for two
Some wands (such as the ManWan Edgy or the Satisfyer Endless Fun) stimulate clitoris, penis, nipples, perineum… All erogenous zones.
Why choose them?
- Versatile and powerful
- Perfect for sensual massages for two
- Adapt to all body types
Cockrings: prolonged pleasure and dual stimulation
The cockring (or cock ring) helps to maintain an erection and, if vibrating, offers dual stimulation. We have selected items from Love to Love, ROUGE, 1969 and Nalone for men.
Vibrating cockring
Combines erection support for men and clitoral stimulation (vibrating arm) for women. Some models also stimulate the perineum or the prostate.
Non-vibrating cockring
Gentle compression to prolong an erection and intensify orgasm.
Discover our selection of cockring.
Vibrating eggs and bullets: discretion and remote-controlled play
Small, discreet, often remote-controlled, they allow one partner to control pleasure of the other through different vibration modes.
Why choose them?
- Total discretion (wearable under clothing)
- A game of control and surprise
- Perfect for outings, restaurants, walks
Explore our collection of vibrating eggs from Love to Love, Nalone and 1969.
The strap-on dildo and pegging: anal penetration and exploration between people with vulvas
The strap-on dildo (strap-on) allows you to explore penetration in all configurations. The pegging refers to the anal penetration of a person (often with a penis) to stimulate the prostate.
Among couples with vulvas, the strap-on dildo is mainly used for vaginal penetration, with role exploration and shared pleasure.
The strap-less (such as Strap On Me) offer double penetration without a harness.
Pegging: exploring anal penetration
Anal penetration with a strap-on to stimulate the prostate (P-spot), producing deep and diffuse orgasms.
Why is it so appealing?
- Intense prostatic pleasure
- Exploring new roles
- Stimulation for the penetrating partner
Discover our selection of pegging harness and strap-on.
The strap-on dildo in couples with vulvas
Primarily for women in vaginal penetration (stimulation vagina and G-spot).
Why embrace it?
- Exploring lesbian penetration
- Role play and sexual power
- Shared pleasure (clitoral + vaginal stimulation)
- Enhanced intimacy (strap-less models)
Explore our range of strap-on dildos.
Double dongs: simultaneous penetration and positional play
Flexible dildo with double end for simultaneous penetration of both partners (primarily with vulvas).
Why choose it?
- Vaginal, anal or mixed penetration
- Rhythm play and intense closeness
- Ideal for female couples
Explore our selection of double dongs.
Second-skin underwear: playing with roles and exploring identities
Realistic packers or genital prostheses in silicone to create the appearance of a penis or vagina in an intimate context. Used by trans and non-binary people to live their sexuality in alignment with their gender identity, or by queer relationships to play with gender roles.
Why choose them?
- Identity alignment during sex
- Visual and tactile realism (medical silicone)
- Role play and queer exploration
- Compatible with certain harnesses
- Internal stimulation for the wearer
How to choose the right couple sex toy?
Which sex toy to choose for a couple? Finding the right product can seem complex given how vast the range and prices are. Here are a few criteria to guide you according to your desires, your experience and your practices.
Defining your desires and your limits
Take the time to talk about it together. Questions to ask yourselves:
- Simultaneous or alternating stimulation?
- Discreet play (vibrating egg) or deeper exploration (pegging, double dong)?
- Integration during intimacy or during foreplay?
- First time or experienced?
Choosing according to your level of experience
Which sex toy to choose for a beginner couple?
- Vibrating cockring : easy, dual stimulation
- Remote-controlled vibrating egg : playful, discreet
- U-shaped couple vibrator : designed for penetration
Discover our selection of couple vibrators.
Which toys for experienced or curious couples?
- Harnesses and strap-on dildos : pegging, role reversal
- Double dong : simultaneous penetration
- Strap-less : no harness needed
Choosing safe materials
Opt for:
- Medical silicone : hypoallergenic, non-porous
- ABS : hard plastic (remotes, casings)
- Metal or glass : for cockrings, plugs
To avoid: porous materials (jelly, PVC).
Check waterproofing and charging
- Waterproofing (waterproof) : practical in the shower
- USB charging : affordable, powerful
- Battery life : check the usage duration
Remote or connected: playing at a distance
Some products have a physical remote control or smartphone app. Ideal for:
- Playing in public
- Handing control to your partner
- Surprising with variations in intensity
Which sex toy to choose for a couple?
How to use a couple sex toy with complete peace of mind?
A couple sex toy used well is a toy that brings well-being, comfort and safety. Here are our recommendations for making the most of it.
Always use a suitable lubricant
- Water-based lubricant : compatible with all sex toys
- Silicone-based lubricant : long-lasting, but not for use on silicone sex toys
For pegging or double dongs : thick lubricant.
Clean your sex toy before and after each use
Hygiene is essential to prevent infections and extend the life of your toys.
How to clean a couple sex toy?
- Before first use : lukewarm water + mild soap
- After each use : rinse + special cleanser
- Drying : air dry or clean cloth
- Storage : fabric pouch
Respect charging times and battery life
- Do not leave plugged in permanently
- Charge fully before first use
- Recharge every 3 months if unused
Communicating during use
Using a couple sex toy is above all a shared experience within your relationship . Feel free to:
- Say what you enjoy or what makes you uncomfortable
- Adjusting intensity, position, rhythm
- Take breaks when needed
- Laugh, play, experiment without pressure
The sex toy is a tool: you are the ones who create the experience.
Couple sex toy: for every couple, every desire
At 1969, we believe that pleasure has no gender, orientation or norm. couple sex toys are for all couples : straight, gay, queer, trans, polyamorous…
What matters is choosing a product that feels like you, that respects your bodies and your desires.
Beyond sex toys, there are other ways to spice up your intimacy. playful games (board games, card games, dice, challenges…) help break the routine, laugh together and discover new sides of your partner.
Discover our collection of playful games to add a playful touch to your evenings. Also discover our collection of BDSM sex toys to explore power play in complete safety.
